I live in a cold climate. Remote start isn't even necessary much less very necessary. I start the car, then clean off all the snow and leave. Running the engine isn't going to remove a foot of snow off the windshield and it definitely won't off the roof or hood.
Regardless remote starters do not need the web or a phone, they existed in the 1990s.
Not just necessary, but very necessary? I understand it's convenient, but I think you've overstated it a bit. You can always start your car and then go back in the house for a few.
Factory remote start is designed to be operated while unattended, and prevents people from stealing the car, prevents it from running too long, etc.
They hook a lot of people now with the first couple years free, then spin around and go for a $150+ a year whammy. We gave up.