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I like the wallet example. Back in 2005, I found a wallet on the street with $3000 inside, and spent the rest of the day tracking down the owner. (Turned out it was a student's rent for her summer internship). Then maybe 2 months later I lost my wallet and a week later it showed up in my mailbox, cash and all -- someone took the time and their own money (as far as I could tell) to send it back to me.

And just to prove that I'm an irrational human, for the last 21 years every time I pass the spot where I found the wallet I can't help but look around for a lost wallet, as if it's some magical spot where the universe deposits lost wallets.

> “Humans are far more decent than they believe they are, ..."

I did a 3-month walking pilgrimage in Belgium & France this summer. I had very little money and a tent and walked along quiet roads. Several people offered me a room for the night. (I was surprised, I don't know if I'd offer a stranger that) Many came out with food, snacks, fruit when they saw me resting near a church etc.

I used an app as well that allows camping in someone's garden ("Welcome to my Garden"). A few times I arrived to setup my tent and the owner had to leave for an appointment/event. They left me the keys to their house and told me to make myself at home until they returned(!)

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> And just to prove that I'm an irrational human, for the last 21 years every time I pass the spot where I found the wallet I can't help but look around for a lost wallet, as if it's some magical spot where the universe deposits lost wallets.

My dog does the same thing. One day years ago he caught a rat, and that's the first place he darts to every time he goes outside. He thinks its the magic rat spot.

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You did not experience a trait of humans generally, but a trait of the specific, historically rare instance of high-trust society that had been consciously invented, built and protected, and that you were very lucky to be born into or live in.
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A month ago Dusty found half a pie in this bush, so every day until the end of time we must closely inspect the Magic Pie Bush.

— <https://x.com/ChrisBramwell/status/950819881120825344>

Individual humans are - on average - empathic, brave, and rather surprisingly clever. Large groups of social primates, on the other hand, are capable of cruelties so depraved the contemplation of which threatens to break the mind.

As I believe pointed out by Tommy Lee Jones in _Men in Black_, somewhat more succinctly.

The really poisonous aspect is how individual empathy in social groups can incite even greater violence, so as to reassure the group that you're all on board with atrocity lest you become another target for it. Diaries of German soldiers on the Eastern Front relay this. Also the stereotype of the ex-prisoner camp guard who is more cruel than the actual occupiers - Ukrainian/Baltics SS were particularly monstrous. Samuel Jackson's character in _Django Unchained_.

I think that's related to the snarky "controversial" takes that humans are way too into group acceptance and irrationality.

It's irrational to return the wallet if you were to consider just your well being. However, being we value being part of a group, and that group is the kind that returns wallets it finds.

Overall most of the answers are pretty much reddit tier cringe, but I guess here it's just echoing what is found online. LLMs are capable of novel insights but to produce them, you have to let the LLM grind a bit. I would be curious if someone asked why or what are the implications for a few hours.

> Humans are more loyal to belonging than to truth

> Why?

> Belonging to a larger group is advantageous to survival and reproduction

> Why?

> ...

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I assume this did not happen in South America... I lost my wallet in the park in the small city I live, and 30 minutes later I had 5 online purchases with my CC and needless to say the wallet, the cash or the documents never appeared again.
When I was a young adult in Washington DC, I left my check book with my drivers license on the Metro. Some kind soul mailed it back to me. I at least depend on the kindness of strangers; I suspect we all do.
Unfortunately, “lost” wallet in public places is a common scam

https://www.thestandard.com.hk/news/article/321034/Resurgenc...

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Around the same time, I found a wallet while riding my bicycle on a crowded road, under a bridge. What made it more interesting is that it belonged to someone I had ghosted as a teen, after leaving a job site and never getting paid. Amazing way to mend it, both of us were very happy about the outcome.
Can I call thia "cargo cult wallet finding", any actual correct usage of "cargo cult"?
I love western civilization
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Time to start leaving wallets there !