Difference being, Apple had experience designing CPU cores and wireless radios before ditching Intel and Qualcomm. The transition felt "magical" because it was a generally low-effort layer on top of a muscle that Apple had gradually built over time. Their design approach is not compatible with scaled manufacturing; Apple does not have experience manufacturing DRAM at all. They don't have their own fabs, nor could they bid on fab space when AI companies outspend them 10:1.
Apple would make more money investing in a CUDA-style architecture than they would by becoming a subsistance manufacturer for the pitiful margins of the iPhone, iPad and Mac.
Indeed, why doesn't Apple have their own fabs yet?