Stuff like virtualization (if we're talking about stuff like virtualized lists) is hard not because of React, but because there just isn't any support for it in browsers. React doesn't really help here, but in my experience, it's usually the browser that starts choking on high element counts, not React.
Async is just difficult in general though. It's not really a surprise that most libraries/frameworks converged on similar designs.
I am talking about virtualized lists. And it should be a framework feature. I used to use WPF on desktop, and it had pretty good virtualization support (though the framework in general was more like Angular) - most containers had virtualization support, and you only had to implement the logic on the data source, and they framework created and managed physical UI elements for you, and managed the mapping so it seemed seamless to the user.
React also operates on a virtual dom, there's no reason imo why couldn't they just fake that for you.
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