I have a tiny minute slice of SPCX from owning VTI total market ETF but my 401K holds no SpaceX.
And guess what, your VTI which does track NASDAQ as part of it's index is effected by this inclusion rule.
Not only is he wrong that it doesn't impact him, because VTI is impacted, but the whole premise is wrong. "I'm not harmed" does not mean things are fine. If I go murder your neighbor, will you come to my trial and demand I go free because you weren't harmed? Should the judge let me go because he wasn't harmed?
QQQ tracks the Nasdaq 100. It's an index fund. If the index includes a new ticker, then QQQ has to buy it.
Buying QQQ doesn't seem like going out of one's way. I don't understand your comment. "ETFs and chill" is a very common investment strategy.
QQQ is more volatile and higher risk than the S&P 500, the people buying it should understand that.
Asked and answered. Whatever cute point you're trying to make is rendered moot by real market dynamics and index inclusion rules.