It absolutely isn't. After having spent 5 days not getting anything done in Vulkan, and being able to implement that same thing in a single day in Cuda (no prior experience in either API), I decided to never ever use Vulkan. It's a hopelessly overengineered API that is in dire need of a successor.
I may give it another try once it does not require a wrapper before it is remotely usable. I.e., once it has a single-line malloc without the need for third-party libs; default queues so I don't need to query and select queues; implicit sync by default and explicit sync by choice; NV-style bindless (i.e. no descriptors, just a handle); and so much more.
Skill issue. Vulkan is intended to be unopinionated around those things. If you want defaults then use a wrapper.
P.s. devices and queues are generally ordered for simple programs you can just pick the 1st one.
Of course it is a skill issue, I'm not afraid of admitting I'm not smart enough for Vulkan. That so many people have skill issues is the reason why Cuda trumps and will continue to trump Vulkan despite being vendor-locked. If you want people to actually use Vulkan, you need to remove barriers to skill-issued people like me. Poor third party wrappers like VMA that barely address one out of hundreds of issues aren't going to accomplish that, you need to resolve barriers in the core API. With a design like Cuda where there is always a default easy path, and a complex but optional path.