That being said, every single denomination picks and chooses. Especially more conservative ones. And in fact, you cant take it all literally and quite a lot is not applicable.
Which leads back to my point, there is a hunger for churches that ignore the intentional blend of secular belief systems in any direction.
You are expressing hunger for openly political church. The one that will reject yout political ennemies regardless of faith.
Your opposition to drag is literally identity politics - rejection due to assumed identity. After all men only and women only groups im church go back to over thousand years.
Churches traditionally hosted musical and other performances not strictly related to scripture. Between musoc and groups and socialization and even sports, all of that wqs part of it.