There is no reason you can't be gracious, courteous and polite while refusing to accept or even to review the PR. These things are not tied together. You can also refuse to be bullied by submitters, stop engaging altogether. But bullying is part of the problem, not the solution, normalizing bullying is the wrong direction and will not result in more secure code.
>There is no reason you can't be gracious, courteous and polite while refusing to accept or even to review the PR.
I agree, and I never suggested we cannot do these things.
I'm saying we should normalize immediately telling people who submit obvious AI slop to fuck right off. Submitting AI slop pull requests is rude. It is disrespectful of the maintainer's time and energy. I see no reason why I or anyone else should be respectful of someone who has already demonstrated a lack of reciprocal respect by submitting a vibe-coded PR that they obviously haven't even read or tested.
Respect must be earned.