Once you get rid of the STL, compile times get so much better. With modern c++23 features, templates actually become really convenient to write, and at the core there is a really useful and pleasant to use language.
I try to avoid c++ libraries and instead rely on c-style APIs. Usually the c++ style libraries force you into using the STL, which comes with a heavy tax on compile times, without much benefit in comfort of use.
I echo the parent commenter - the STL has a massive negative impact on compile times. And for what? The STL is not even fast. The way the standards are written, std::unordered_map has to be implemented as a tree rather than a flat open-addressing hashtable, which would've been far superior due to cache locality.
For my own project I rolled my own string, string_view, map, set, optional, variant, and vector. Only took maybe a day. And that day has paid dividends, as my clean debug builds literally take 3 seconds now.