The GP is right to be offended by what you said, because his way of learning Emacs was an extremely typical one for decades. Remember that such informative and inspirational resources like Mastering Emacs didn't exist until the 2010s. I myself got into Emacs around the turn of the millennium because I wanted a free IDE for my programming-language classes at uni, and also I wanted to use Gnus which was such a capable mail and Usenet reader. It was only over years, as I amassed various problems that I needed to solve and tasks to automate, that I began learning all the tricks of Emacs customization and then eventually Emacs Lisp itself.