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gritspants | on: How to get better at guitar
I picked up Violin as an adult, have done recitals, and I suck. Being able to suck and find joy in something anyway even if you're not top nth percentile is a valuable life skill.
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benrutter | parent | next
This is so true! I think as kids we naturally don't mind doing something creative and it not working out well, but as adults, we worry too much about seeming competent.

In a career, seeming competent can be valuable, but for learning something new and creative, it often just creates a barrier to getting started.

wvh | parent | next
I think it's pretty frustrating if the songs/pieces you actually want to play are demanding or even at the virtuoso level.

If you really want to play a David Gilmour guitar solo or sing some Led Zeppelin, it better not suck because it won't hit the mark at all.

For me, the reason to pick up the guitar as a kid was to play stuff I liked, stuff that turned out not to be that easy, and every time I play, I feel that gap of where I feel I should be to respect the music I'm trying to play.

I wish I had more your attitude.

freetime2 | root | parent | next
Rick Beato did a video about being able to identify guitarists by a single note. David Gilmour was by far the easiest to recognize. It got me wondering how much work would it take to even be able to play a single note as well as David Gilmour. And even then I would still only be imitating someone, not creating something original.

[1] https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gESY87hn7_Q

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seba_dos1 | root | parent
There's plenty of good stuff that's hard to play, but there's also so much good stuff that's relatively easy.

It's also obvious to me that at this point I'm never going to reach the virtuoso level even if I really wanted to, but so what? I suck, but whenever I manage to play something that I couldn't before it brings me joy.

taeric | parent | next
So many things in life are better if you can get past that fear of not being good. Because very very few people can skip the stage where they are not good. (I'd be comfortable saying nobody. But there is always somebody, it seems.)
Tade0 | parent | next
That's why I enjoy singing so much. Moderate skill good enough as most people can't even bring themselves to do it in public out of embarrassment.

My sister is in a whole different league than me in terms of singing but she also performs live, which I don't plan to do unless it's a karakoe evening.

grogenaut | parent | next
I tell my Mentees one of the greatest skills is getting good at not being good at something. Being comfortable being uncomfortable.
ziofill | root | parent
This is good advice for most human activities. I told my students these exact words (you gotta get comfortable being uncomfortable) countless times when teaching math and physics.
grvdrm | parent | next
Yup: golf. Go out there and enjoy the air, sun, walk, company.
nathell | parent | next
Can attest to this.

I picked up singing 4 years ago (I’m 42 now), starting from nothing, and I’ve been taking regular lessons. I still suck. But I suck slightly less than I did when I was starting, and what motivates me is the sheer joy that it brings. I just hope it lasts.