Half the problem is lack of proper drivers. I love OpenBSD but all the fibre stuff is just a bit half-baked.
For a long time OpenBSD didn't even have DOM (light-level monitoring etc.) exposed in its 1g fibre drivers. Stuff like that automatically kills off OpenBSD as a choice for datacentres where DOM stats are a non-negotiable hard requirement as they are so critical to troubleshooting.
OpenBSD finally introduced DOM stats for SFP somewhere around 2020–2021, but it doesn't always work, it depends if you have the right magic combination of SFP and card manufacturer. Whilst on FreeBSD it Just Works (TM).
And then overall, for higher speed optics, FreeBSD simply remains lightyears ahead (forgive the pun !). For example, Decisio make nice little router boxes with 10g SFP+ on them, FreeBSD has the drivers out-of-the-box, OpenBSD doesn't. And that's only an SFP+ example, its basically rolling-tumbleweed in a desert territory if you start venturing up to QSFP etc. ...