It's interesting you mention __del__ because Javascript not only doesn't have destructors but for security reasons (that are above my pay grade) but the spec _explicitly prohibits_ implementations from allowing visibility into garbage collection state, meaning that code cannot have any visibility into deallocations.

I think __del__ is tricky though. In theory __del__ is not meant to be reliable. In practice CPython reliably calls it cuz it reference counts. So people know about it and use it (though I've only really seen it used for best effort cleanup checks)

In a world where more people were using PyPy we could have pressure from that perspective to avoid leaning into it. And that would also generate more pressure to implement code that is performant in "any" system.