I can relate, having suffered the same for most of my life. One thing that really helped me was a simple white noise machine, typically used to help babies sleep. Good: I sleep great with it. Also, it's not connected to the internet and doesn't require an app. Bad: I basically can't sleep without it. I have to travel with it (camping!). I even purchased a backup in case the primary fails, which has happened.
The other major sleep improvement was putting effort into accepting that life is pretty great; all of my worries that kept me awake at night were overblown. This took actual work, but it paid off.
Anyway, just thought I'd pass that along, hoping it might help someone else that struggles with sleep.
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iOS, iPadOS, and macOS have a pretty great built-in background-noise generator these days. While lots of actual beaches can go dead silent and then have a loud wave crash in, the waves that
It’s available in Settings -> Accessibility -> Audio & Visual -> Background Sounds. You’ll have to download the sounds each once, but after that they stay on your device.
Digging this deeply in Settings isn’t pleasant if you just want some white noise, so you may want to add a control to Control Center like “Background Sounds” (way down in the Hearing Accessibility section) to turn the ocean noise on and off.
I turn this on my iPad when going to bed if I want to take extra steps to ensure that I don’t wake up in the middle of the night.
I do use a standalone Lectrofan for sleep as I prefer my noise machine to be across the room and Alexa-controlled (via a smart switch), plus it’s louder and the brown noise is “browner.”
But I keep iOS BG sound mapped to the triple-click shortcut for when noise-cancelling just isn’t enough in loud restaurants etc. It works great with AirPods for reducing my noise sensitivity issues.
If you're trying to get better sleep, get your phone as far away as possible!
I can't believe I had to download an app for that because the feature is buried in SETTINGS (!!!!). What an obtuse choice. Thanks for the tip though, I hate that my white noise app has a rotating ad banner.
At home I have a simple one that plugs in and generates noise with fan. Looks almost exactly like this: https://res.cloudinary.com/guest-supply/image/upload/f_auto,...
When I travel I take this small portable rechargeable one: https://www.amazon.com/Machine-Babelio-Adults-Non-looping-So...
I'm on android so I don't have the built in sounds that iOS has
Turns out most of my anxiety, insomnia, etc sensations were caused by pinched spinal nerves.
I say sensation because I believe, but cannot prove, that my physical sensation led to my mental state. Most diagnosis assume the reverse; that mental state leads to physical symptoms (restlessness, clinching, pit-in-stomach, whatever). I have not yet read anything or met anyone (care providers) supporting my hunch.
So... Anyone experiencing treatment resistent pinched nerves, eg sciatica pain, may want to consider possible physical causes.
In my case, it was collapsing vertebrae due to osteoporosis resolved with a S1-L5-L4 lumbar fusion. Yes, that surgery and recovery was very difficult. The upside is I now often sleep like a corpse. It's glorious.
YMMV.
Very low tech, very cheap, very secure, very effective.
As I get older, deafness will likely reduce my need to rely on technology.
Stereo - genius!
I had the two problems of poor sleep without white noise and a dog allergy and now I have neither.
I used wireless headphones back then. My choice of "white noise" was popcorn in a microwave (because the neighborhood was that noisy)